The Only Crooked Tree in the Forest

Cedar Valley News
Fictorial Number 453 · October 30, 2026
The Only Crooked Tree in the Forest
By Dan Larson

The last of the autumn supper had been eaten, and Lorna and I were stacking chairs in the community hall. She is one of those people a town leans on without noticing it does — brings two casseroles when one was asked, remembers which child is allergic to what, never seems rattled. If you had asked me, standing there, to name a person in Cedar Valley who had it all figured out, I might have pointed at her with a folding chair in my hand.

It surprised me when she stopped, a chair half-folded, and said she had almost stayed home. “Some days,” she said, “I feel like I’m the only one in this whole valley still trying to get her act together. Everyone else already has.” She laughed the way we laugh at the true things, and went back to the chairs.

I said something useless, and she let me. But I have thought of it every day since. Because I would have put Lorna at the very top of the list of the straight and the sorted. And I promise you, somewhere in the same hall, another person was folding a chair, looking at her, and thinking the exact thing she had just said about everyone else. Maybe looking at me. Maybe at you.

I have carried a story for years, told by Sister Wendy Nelson at a worldwide gathering for young people in 2018. She and her husband were out on a beautiful autumn day, riding through the hills of Utah, glad to be among trees she called “golden and gorgeous, tall and straight, all reaching to heaven.” Then they turned a corner, and she saw one tree unlike the rest. It was, she said, “a tree that reminded me of me.” You look around, she told those young people, and everyone else is tall and straight and reaching to heaven. “And then, well, there’s you and me.”

Her counsel was plain. “It’s time,” she said, “to stop comparing ourselves with others.” And then a sentence I would tape to every bathroom mirror in the valley if they would let me: “We are not as hopelessly flawed as we may think, and others are not as perfect as they may appear.”

Here is what the comparing costs us. It does more than make us sad. It makes us hide. The straighter we try to look, the more we fold our bent parts out of sight, and the more alone we leave the person beside us — the one certain she is the only crooked tree in a whole forest of straight ones. Lorna did a brave thing in the hall. She let her bend show. For a moment, the room was less lonely, though most of it never knew why.

I have no cure for the comparing. I caught myself at it in the time it took to write this down. But I have seen what loosens its grip, and it is never a straighter posture. It is someone, folding a chair beside you, saying the true and crooked thing out loud — and finding, to the surprise of them both, you had been bracing to say it first.

Who have you quietly cast as one of the tall, straight trees, and might they be wondering the same about you? Write to us. If we have gotten a fact wrong, tell us and we will correct it.

Cedar Valley News is fiction — its columnists and townspeople are invented, including Dan Larson, though the public facts it cites are real and sourced. Written by Evan Swensen, Publisher, with Claude Marshall, AI Developmental Editor. A reflection, not a report.

Sources: The tree story and the quoted words are Sister Wendy W. Nelson’s, from “Hope of Israel,” a worldwide devotional for young adults, June 3, 2018, Conference Center, Salt Lake City.

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