Whatever It Takes

Cedar Valley News
Fictorial Number 459 · November 6, 2026
Whatever It Takes
By Dan Larson

I have stood at a good many gravesides. It comes with the work I am called to do. And here is something you may never have considered: long before the family arrives, and long after they drive home, somebody has been there. Somebody mowed the grass between the stones, made sure the right plot was open in the right place, and will close it when we have all gone. We almost never learn his name. This week I learned one.

Wayne Smith was the sexton of a cemetery in Batavia, Ohio, for more than 18 years. If you do not know the word, do not feel bad — neither did he when they asked him to take the job, temporarily, until the village found someone else. He stayed nearly two decades. Fifteen acres. About 700 graves in his special care — the veterans, and the souls with no living family left to visit them. Some of the stones go back to the 1830s, in ground where a fire once took the early records, so he probed the empty plots by hand to be sure they were empty.

Here is what he did with those years. He mowed and weeded and cleared the roads. He went to the burials — most of them, he says, weekends and bad weather included; in one July alone there were 14. But listen to how he describes the point of it. “You got to know that when you’re in the cemetery, you’re here for them,” he says, “because they’ve just lost somebody.” And this: “You want everything to be perfect on that day of rest for them.”

A day of rest. Think about the man who would call a burial a day of rest. He does not mean rest for himself. He means the last kindness a town can do for a person — the plot and the hour and the quiet, gotten right, on the one day the family will carry the rest of their lives. Working with grieving families, he says, was his favorite part of the job. Not the easiest. The favorite. The hardest was the first child he buried, a girl of seven. “That one hit hard,” he says, “because I’m a grandfather, and I had a granddaughter not far from that age.” He carried it, and kept showing up.

The board must replace him now, and they are honest about the trouble. “There’s not a manual that we can just pass on to the new person,” one says. A manual can list a sexton’s duties. It cannot teach a man how to stand beside a family on the worst day of their lives. You learn it only by doing it, in the rain, on a Saturday, for someone who can never thank you. Another board member gave the whole man in a single line. “With Wayne, it’s whatever it takes,” he says. “It’s just — if they need me, I’m here. Period.”

I don’t know what Wayne Smith believes about much of anything, and it doesn’t matter here. What I know is this: for 18 years a man went out to a field of the forgotten and the grieving and did his work as if every soul in his care were somebody’s whole world — because to somebody, each one was. The dead could not thank him. The town, mostly, never knew his name. He did the work anyway, faithfully, year after year. I have read a great deal about faith. I am not sure I have read a cleaner definition of it than a man on a mower among the stones, showing up in the rain for people who can never pay him back. Whatever it takes. If they need me, I am here. Period.

Who tends the quiet, thankless things in your corner of the world — the ones who show up for people who can never pay them back? Write to us. If we have gotten a fact wrong, tell us and we will correct it.

Cedar Valley News is fiction — its columnists and townspeople are invented, including Dan Larson, though the public facts it cites are real and sourced. Written by Evan Swensen, Publisher, with Claude Marshall, AI Developmental Editor. A reflection, not a report.

Sources: WVXU (Cincinnati), “Meet the man who took care of Batavia Union Cemetery for nearly two decades,” by Lilley Halloran, September 25, 2026.

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