The Reason to Make Peace Is Not Peace

Cedar Valley News
June 12, 2026
The Reason to Make Peace Is Not Peace
By Dan Larson

I sat with two people this week who could not make peace.

I will not tell you who they are, or what the quarrel was about. It does not matter, and it is not mine to tell. I will tell you only this. They are good people. They both knew they ought to put the thing down. If you had asked either of them how, each could have told you, chapter and verse. They knew the what. They knew the how. They sat in my office, and they would not move.

I drove home thinking about the gap. Most of us are not short on the what. The news these days is full of the hope for peace. Far away, in cities we will never see, men sit at long tables and try to end a war, and the whole world watches and prays they succeed. Closer in, President Nelson, near the end of his life, said it plainly: “I urge you to choose to be a peacemaker, now and always.” And the Savior, on a hillside, blessed the peacemakers outright.

There are answers to the how, and President Nelson gave good ones. Do not return contention for contention. Choose reconciliation when you would rather be right. Let the last hard word in a room belong to the other person, not to you. I have given counsel like it a hundred times across this calling. I gave it again this week, to two people who already knew it. It did not move them an inch.

The how is powerless without the why. And the why is the thing we almost never say out loud.

We love the first half of the Savior’s sentence. Blessed are the peacemakers. We carve it on plaques and read it at funerals, and we stop there, as if the blessing were the peace itself. But read the whole line. Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the children of God.

He did not promise the peacemaker peace. He did not say the quarrel would end. He did not say you would get your way, or the other person would finally come around. He promised something else. He promised you would be called a child of God. You do not lay the quarrel down to win the quarrel. You lay it down to become a child of your Father. There is no other way in. I have read those words for forty years. I did not understand them until this week, watching two good people refuse the one thing waiting to make them more than they were.

President Nelson told a story once, from his years as a surgeon. A doctor beside him lost his temper and flung a scalpel, and it struck him in the arm. He carried the scar for life. And he wondered, decades on, whether the germs on the blade were any more poisonous than the contention we carry in our hearts and call righteousness.

The story tells me this. The venom of a quarrel lands first in the one who keeps it. The grudge you will not set down does its quiet damage to you, not to them. When you make peace, the first person you heal is yourself.

The world’s peace is a different thing. It is a treaty, a ceasefire, a quarrel run out of fuel. It is worth praying for, and I pray for it. But the Savior marked the difference Himself. My peace I give unto you, He said — not as the world giveth. The world’s peace is the absence of a fight. His peace is the presence of something the fight cannot reach.

You do not make peace because it works. Half the time it will not. You make peace because of who it makes you.

So if there is a quarrel you are carrying this morning — a grudge, a coldness, a name you have stopped saying — do not wait for the other person to move first. Do not wait until it works. Set it down for the sake of who you are becoming. The world is waiting on its treaty. You do not have to wait on yours.

Cedar Valley News has a Facebook group. If you have comments and want to join the conversation, you are welcome. Tell us about a peace someone made in your life, or one you are trying to make now. https://bit.ly/40p8jKy

This editorial is part of the fictional Cedar Valley News series, written by Evan Swensen, Publisher, and Claude Marshall, AI Developmental Editor. While the people and town of Cedar Valley are fictional, President Russell M. Nelson and his call to be peacemakers are real.

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