No Partner Required

Cedar Valley News|
Fictorial Number 464 · November 12, 2026
No Partner Required
By Chloe Papadakis

Every October I plan the barn dance out on the county road. And every October I watch the same thing happen along the wall. The couples dance. The children run. And a row of people stand by the hay bales with their hands in their pockets, holding a paper cup, waiting for permission.

I have spent 20 years trying to hand out permission. I have learned it does not come in an announcement.

This fall in Vermont, a fiddler named Ida Mae Specker and a caller named Sarah Gibson carried it from town to town. Their tour was called “The Lonely Days Are Gone.” It brought free square dances to old town halls in five towns: Brandon, Brookfield, Hardwick, Ferrisburgh, and Chester.

Look at how the Brookfield evening was built, because someone thought it through. At four o’clock, a concert for children. At five, a potluck. From six to eight, the concert and square dance. Then an old-time jam for anyone who brought an instrument.

The listing gives the order, not the reasons. Here is how a planner reads it. The children come first, so the parents come. Supper comes next, so the shy have something to do with their hands. The dance comes after people have already sat side by side and passed the bread. And the jam lets the night wind down instead of stopping, so nobody has to be the first to leave.

Then there is one line on the listing I would frame: “No prior dance experience or partner is required.”

Read it twice. Partner is the word. Experience can be taught in a lesson before the music starts. A partner is what the person by the wall doesn’t have, and what he is sure everyone else will notice.

A square dance answers him with structure. Gibson describes it as structured social interaction — “directions from me for how to dance,” as she put it to a student reporter. The caller tells you where to stand. She tells you when to take a hand and when to let it go. Nobody has to decide anything. The widower, the teenager, and the woman who moved to town in August are all doing the same impossible thing at once, getting it wrong together, and laughing.

“It’s an incredible group experience,” Specker said. “I think it’s very healing as a society for us to get together and do these things.”

I believe her about the healing, though I would say it more plainly. A square holds eight people. If you are short one, somebody waves at the wall.

The town halls matter too. These are rooms built for town meeting, for votes and budgets and arguments. Specker and Gibson filled them with fiddles and casseroles. Same floor. Same neighbors. A different reason to be there.

My daughter asked me last week why I set the chairs by the barn door facing into the room. I told her it is so nobody sitting there feels halfway out the door. She thought about it. “But what if they want to leave?” They can, I said. I only want them to stay long enough for the caller.

Next October the poster for our barn dance will say what theirs said. No partner required. And when a square comes up one short, I know where I will be looking.

Who waved you in from the wall? Write to us. If we have gotten a fact wrong, tell us and we will correct it.

Cedar Valley News is fiction — its columnists and townspeople are invented, including Chloe Papadakis, though the public facts it cites are real and sourced. Written by Evan Swensen, Publisher, with Claude Marshall, AI Developmental Editor. A reflection, not a report.

Sources: Dakota Hyland, Community News Service, “Stepping into community: Fall square dancing tour continues across Vermont,” WCAX, October 14, 2026; Chandler Center for the Arts, “The Lonely Days Are Gone Square Dance Tour,” event listing, Brookfield Old Town Hall, October 3, 2026.

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